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Wednesday 30 November 2011

How do you understand if a girl is interested in you

                   Not all girls are same but she may give away signals that she is interested in you. You can understand that by her looks, behavior and body languages. Now, generally what girls do when they are in such situation are following:
                
                  1. She likes spending time and talking with you:   If a girl likes you she will not want to loose an opportunity to have a walk with you or to see you. She would always try to find an excuse to spend time with you. When you are talking with someone and if she participates in the conversation, its a positive sign for you. She often give you a sweet look with smile.

                 2. She gives you her phone number:   If  there are other eligible guys around you but she gives her contact number or email id to you without any hesitation, its a positive sign. She may find excuses to call you and when you call her she may start any conversation without waiting for you to start.

                3. She introduces you to her family and friends:   If a girl likes you she would introduce you to her friends and family and she may be appreciating about you. She would not have problems with other seeing her with you.

                4. She touches you often:   If the girl touches you often while walking or talking or if she holds eye contact with you, it a good sign that she likes you. If she is not touching you that doesn't mean that she is not interested in you. She may be nervous of you to touch you yet.

               5. She feels jealous if she see other girls with you:    If you notice that she feels jealous to see you with other girls that means she is really interested in you. You can try to take your friendship to the next level. When you are with other girls and talking with them she may try to distract or interrupt you.

               6. She laughs at your normal or boring jokes:   If a girl is liking you , she may even laugh at your boring or stupid jokes.

               7. She may flirt with you openly:    She may flirt with you openly to send you the message that she likes you.

               8. She tells her friends about you:   If her friends teasing her when they spot you and if she smiles then, it means she is telling her friends about you and she likes you.

               9. Very often you may meet her accidentally:   She may try to chase you where you go often and she is able to see you. If you find her accidentally, she will find some stupid reasons to be there.

             10. She is conscious about her looks when you are around:   A girl may try to look more beautiful than normally she looks when you are around. You may even notice her to touch her lips, hair, neck or clothing when she is in front of you. She may often ask you about her looks.

            11. She likes your company:    If a girl feels comfortable and secured with you than other guys  that means she likes you. She may even ask you for a date.

           12. She tries her best to help you:   If you are in a problem & if you call her to help you, she will be there at any cost to help you, if she really likes you. She will always encourage you.

          13. She remembers your special days and moments:   If a girl likes you she will remember your special days, specially your birthday and she may even buy you a gift. If you achieve something she will immediately call you to congratulate you and ask for a party too see you.

         14. She may involve you in her future planning:   When she talks about her future she may mention you in it, if she really likes you. She may share her long term dreams and aspirations with you.

                          Most of the girls at least send the above signals or signs. Now you have to determine the girl's interest level in you by observing her body language. Is there any other points i left out? Please feel free to add them through comments.

Tuesday 22 November 2011

How to Attract a Girl & To Make Relationship With Her

As the girls are full of complexity, so the answer is going to be long...............................
Firstly let me give you the wrong suggestions what guys generally hear from their friends or other people-----
               A great sense of humor, romance, hotness, eye color, great hair, money, a bike or a car, a sexy smile etc. etc.
               Why these are wrong? Because by these things girls are attracted to in guys but these are not all the things a girl is really looking for into guys. There are too many levels of attraction and for each level you must understand a girl, what she is actually looking for. A girl may be looking for a new boyfriend while she has just gotten out a relationship and trying to find someone to be with her.
                So you have to be sensitive about the situations she is going through, and if you want her, go there and try your hardest to get her. So, to make her a part of your life you need the following--------

1. ATTRACTION:
                              The phase attraction is nothing about the "getting her attraction" phase. According to a survey there are more number of guys approach a girl comparing to a boy. So their attention may vary everyday. But don't worry, if you don't have the luxury of being able to walk by her, followings will definitely help you------
                     i) Confidence:
                                          At first, you have to understand confidence doesn't mean arrogance. It is the idea that you are not in a need of a special one or girlfriend, you just want of a friend and you can find one anywhere. A guy, who is in the center of a conversation & has the ability of making people laugh is always viewed as the confident one, but the one who is sitting in a corner & just enjoying the conversation doesn't viewed as the confident one.

                    ii) Attractiveness:
                                               Attraction from a guy starts from his haircut. So get a haircut that is actually meant to be on your head. And if you want to show your $100 suit like a $800 suit just spend some money to get it tailored. And the most important attractive factors are the way you walk, speak and dance. You must learn to handle yourself. If you look like that you can take care of yourself, it means to her that you can also take care of her for sure. MOST OF THE GUYS THINK THAT GIRLS WANT A LOT OF MONEY, BUT THE ACTUAL FACT IS, LOYAL GIRLS ONLY WANT SOMEONE TO TAKE CARE OF HER. Its different.


2. THE SPARK:
                          The girl may be completely attracted by you but she doesn't want to fly directly to your bedroom. If you offer her for sex at the beginning, you will loose her forever. A girl can separate you from the other guys only by your spark. You have to show your inner talents, skills and passions to do the following--------
                          i) Make her feel special: 
                                                               If a girl doesn't feel like she is a special person to you, what will be the purpose or reason to be with you? So just tell her why you are so interested in her. Make her laugh all the time. If you are short tampered, hide it. Just let her feel that she is very special to you.

                         ii) Make yourself look special:
                                                                       Try to bring her attention to the things which separates you from other guys. Think about what you have that no other guy has. Just try to convince her to accept your proposal by saying that you love your mother very much, in fact your girlfriend will have the real love as you do with your mother, you love to do charity, you love to hear romantic songs. Just keep trying to make her feelings romantic as much as possible. But do not lie to her. 
     


3. THE RELATIONSHIP: 
                                         Now its the time to understand what she wants at this point. Happening all the above, at this point she needs to hear only the three ever glowing magical words  "I Love You"  from you. Now you are the only person there for her. According to a survey, it is noticed that most of the girls want to hear "I love you" from her boyfriend at least five times in a day when they are in a relationship. After accepting your proposal now you can be funny, serious, angry or whatever you like. But don't be dominating, be real. 
BEST OF LUCK!!!