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Sunday 25 December 2011

How To Get A Girl's Phone Number Fast


                         After talking with a girl for 5 to 6 minutes, almost every time  I say, ”It was nice meeting with you, I have to go back to my friends.”

And most of the time they also say , “It was nice meeting you too.”  Then, just I’m turning to walk away from her, I turn back and say, “Hey! Do you have any email?”

If she answers affirmative, I use to take out a paper and say, “ Great! Then write it down.” And when she is in the middle in the writing , I say, “ Please write down your phone number too.”

If you ask a girl directly her phone number, that is odd. But asking her email and when she is in the middle of the writing, asking her to write her phone number too is totally risk free. She will write her phone number without any hesitation.

Wednesday 30 November 2011

How do you understand if a girl is interested in you

                   Not all girls are same but she may give away signals that she is interested in you. You can understand that by her looks, behavior and body languages. Now, generally what girls do when they are in such situation are following:
                
                  1. She likes spending time and talking with you:   If a girl likes you she will not want to loose an opportunity to have a walk with you or to see you. She would always try to find an excuse to spend time with you. When you are talking with someone and if she participates in the conversation, its a positive sign for you. She often give you a sweet look with smile.

                 2. She gives you her phone number:   If  there are other eligible guys around you but she gives her contact number or email id to you without any hesitation, its a positive sign. She may find excuses to call you and when you call her she may start any conversation without waiting for you to start.

                3. She introduces you to her family and friends:   If a girl likes you she would introduce you to her friends and family and she may be appreciating about you. She would not have problems with other seeing her with you.

                4. She touches you often:   If the girl touches you often while walking or talking or if she holds eye contact with you, it a good sign that she likes you. If she is not touching you that doesn't mean that she is not interested in you. She may be nervous of you to touch you yet.

               5. She feels jealous if she see other girls with you:    If you notice that she feels jealous to see you with other girls that means she is really interested in you. You can try to take your friendship to the next level. When you are with other girls and talking with them she may try to distract or interrupt you.

               6. She laughs at your normal or boring jokes:   If a girl is liking you , she may even laugh at your boring or stupid jokes.

               7. She may flirt with you openly:    She may flirt with you openly to send you the message that she likes you.

               8. She tells her friends about you:   If her friends teasing her when they spot you and if she smiles then, it means she is telling her friends about you and she likes you.

               9. Very often you may meet her accidentally:   She may try to chase you where you go often and she is able to see you. If you find her accidentally, she will find some stupid reasons to be there.

             10. She is conscious about her looks when you are around:   A girl may try to look more beautiful than normally she looks when you are around. You may even notice her to touch her lips, hair, neck or clothing when she is in front of you. She may often ask you about her looks.

            11. She likes your company:    If a girl feels comfortable and secured with you than other guys  that means she likes you. She may even ask you for a date.

           12. She tries her best to help you:   If you are in a problem & if you call her to help you, she will be there at any cost to help you, if she really likes you. She will always encourage you.

          13. She remembers your special days and moments:   If a girl likes you she will remember your special days, specially your birthday and she may even buy you a gift. If you achieve something she will immediately call you to congratulate you and ask for a party too see you.

         14. She may involve you in her future planning:   When she talks about her future she may mention you in it, if she really likes you. She may share her long term dreams and aspirations with you.

                          Most of the girls at least send the above signals or signs. Now you have to determine the girl's interest level in you by observing her body language. Is there any other points i left out? Please feel free to add them through comments.

Tuesday 22 November 2011

How to Attract a Girl & To Make Relationship With Her

As the girls are full of complexity, so the answer is going to be long...............................
Firstly let me give you the wrong suggestions what guys generally hear from their friends or other people-----
               A great sense of humor, romance, hotness, eye color, great hair, money, a bike or a car, a sexy smile etc. etc.
               Why these are wrong? Because by these things girls are attracted to in guys but these are not all the things a girl is really looking for into guys. There are too many levels of attraction and for each level you must understand a girl, what she is actually looking for. A girl may be looking for a new boyfriend while she has just gotten out a relationship and trying to find someone to be with her.
                So you have to be sensitive about the situations she is going through, and if you want her, go there and try your hardest to get her. So, to make her a part of your life you need the following--------

1. ATTRACTION:
                              The phase attraction is nothing about the "getting her attraction" phase. According to a survey there are more number of guys approach a girl comparing to a boy. So their attention may vary everyday. But don't worry, if you don't have the luxury of being able to walk by her, followings will definitely help you------
                     i) Confidence:
                                          At first, you have to understand confidence doesn't mean arrogance. It is the idea that you are not in a need of a special one or girlfriend, you just want of a friend and you can find one anywhere. A guy, who is in the center of a conversation & has the ability of making people laugh is always viewed as the confident one, but the one who is sitting in a corner & just enjoying the conversation doesn't viewed as the confident one.

                    ii) Attractiveness:
                                               Attraction from a guy starts from his haircut. So get a haircut that is actually meant to be on your head. And if you want to show your $100 suit like a $800 suit just spend some money to get it tailored. And the most important attractive factors are the way you walk, speak and dance. You must learn to handle yourself. If you look like that you can take care of yourself, it means to her that you can also take care of her for sure. MOST OF THE GUYS THINK THAT GIRLS WANT A LOT OF MONEY, BUT THE ACTUAL FACT IS, LOYAL GIRLS ONLY WANT SOMEONE TO TAKE CARE OF HER. Its different.


2. THE SPARK:
                          The girl may be completely attracted by you but she doesn't want to fly directly to your bedroom. If you offer her for sex at the beginning, you will loose her forever. A girl can separate you from the other guys only by your spark. You have to show your inner talents, skills and passions to do the following--------
                          i) Make her feel special: 
                                                               If a girl doesn't feel like she is a special person to you, what will be the purpose or reason to be with you? So just tell her why you are so interested in her. Make her laugh all the time. If you are short tampered, hide it. Just let her feel that she is very special to you.

                         ii) Make yourself look special:
                                                                       Try to bring her attention to the things which separates you from other guys. Think about what you have that no other guy has. Just try to convince her to accept your proposal by saying that you love your mother very much, in fact your girlfriend will have the real love as you do with your mother, you love to do charity, you love to hear romantic songs. Just keep trying to make her feelings romantic as much as possible. But do not lie to her. 
     


3. THE RELATIONSHIP: 
                                         Now its the time to understand what she wants at this point. Happening all the above, at this point she needs to hear only the three ever glowing magical words  "I Love You"  from you. Now you are the only person there for her. According to a survey, it is noticed that most of the girls want to hear "I love you" from her boyfriend at least five times in a day when they are in a relationship. After accepting your proposal now you can be funny, serious, angry or whatever you like. But don't be dominating, be real. 
BEST OF LUCK!!!

Sunday 23 October 2011

The easiest way to test your girlfriend's loyalty

Are you really serious about a special girl in your life...??? But you are not sure what is in her mind........Women are really complicated. So if you you want to understand them you have to be more complicated.
So if you can be complicated, here are some easy ways to test your  girlfriend's loyalty.........................

1. "Tell her something about yourself  & request her not to disclose"
-----------If somehow you hear your secret thing what you told her, from another person, you must understand that you cannot trust her. You must understand that she told all her friends your secret words. She will not able to keep your secret things confidential further.

Warning :  Do not create a secret to test her, because that would be lying to her. And also don't disclose your most important secret to her because if she will reveal it, that would be harmful.


2. "Request her not to go to a party she really wants to on a evening because you have mild fever & you need her"
-----------If she  is ready to give up a party or a girls' night out for you and if she is willing to come to your home to take care of you, she cares for you.

Warning : Don't consistently ask her to give up everything for you because she cannot give up her life's all happiness for you.


3. "Call a good looking friend of yours and introduce to her and see how she reacts & leave them alone for few minutes"
-----------If she starts to flirt with him and exchanges her phone number, she likes male attention too much.
But if she tells you about what happened, its ok.

Warning : Don't get caught because she might cheat on you later.


4. "Offer her if she wants to spend the weekend together"
----------If immediately she answers affirmative, you know she loves to spend a lot of time with you.
But if she hesitates and wants to check her schedule, you have something to worry about.

Warning : Don't force her to change her entire schedule for you because that would be dominating.


5. "Watch her in the party or a night club"
---------If she dances so closely with other guys in presence of yours, think what she do when you are not with her in a party. But if she dances normally and throws glances in your way, its ok.

Warning : No girl wants a huffing and puffing boyfriend in a party. Dancing with other guys is not bad but when it becomes so close, there is something to get in tension.


6. "Ask her to show her mobile phone's inbox"
---------If she immediately shows her inbox, its fine. But if any hesitation comes from your girlfriend, this is not the girl you want.

Warning : Don't check everyday her inbox because she may think that you are possessive.      


7. "Cash"
---------If your girlfriend asks for money everyday and if the amount increases day by day continuously, you should understand that your girlfriend is with you only because of your money.


8. "Any social networking site"
---------  Make a fake profile of any other name and send a friend request to your girlfriend. If you find that she is flirty with you & wants to meet you, your girlfriend is not loyal.

Warning : In facebook or in any other social networking site girls like to do flirt with other guys although she may be in a relationship. But if she is meeting other guys then she is a fake lover.


9. "Phone call"
---------Tell anyone of your friend to call your girlfriend from an unknown number and tell him also to flirt with her. If she melts by the unknown phone call, you should leave her. Today you know that your friend is flirting with your girlfriend, but who knows how many calls she already had or having & dating with other guys.




10. " Fake reason"
---------Tell your girlfriend about a serious problem (fake) of yours, like, you are fired from your job. Just look at her reactions. If she supports you & encourages and helps you to find another job, you have chosen the right person. But If she gets angry and starts to avoid you, she  fails in the loyalty test.